Wow...two very different examples of self-immolation; I think both are like cheating in a relationship, yeah there might be the claimed reason for it, but it's indicative of other issues in the person more likely

Random Phrases of the Day:
"partying like a verb," from a random stranger's flickr set
and
"the beginning is near," a sign on the back of a ginormous creepy costume/prop conglomeration in the All Souls Procession